I don't know if women want men in their public bathrooms or not. I don't think most men would care if women walked in on us, though. Heck, we might give you a show! Actually, that's not true, and this whole mess about toilet access is turning into a form of hysteria that we need to flush out of our systems. The problem is, Democrats hate Republicans and Republicans hate Democrats and never the stain shall meet. What's happened is that the country has suddenly grown up; it caught up with the rest of the world, and an entire segment of society wasn't ready for it, wasn't prepared and still isn't. Damn Obama. I mean, could you imagine John Wayne donning a dress and lassoing a stall in the ladies' room? "That's mine, Pilgrim!"
Well, Caitlyn Jenner - a Republican - just used the mens' room at Trump International Hotel in New York City (with his blessings, sort of) and dangled a video in front of Ted Cruz's nose, "Thank you, Donald, really appreciate it. And by the way, Ted, nobody got molested..."
(Oh, and, since this stinky mess infested the newswaves, I've been asking store owners, managers, and employees a simple question. One by one, they answered me, although, I did get a NO COMMENT or two.)
"Is it okay for me to use the ladies' room if the mens' room is occupied?" These weren't single stall rooms that could be mistaken for unisex ones.
"Ummm.. Yeah, I guess so." Could you imagine this response a few months ago? And that's part of the problem. It's all happening so fast, no one knows the law. They think men can surrepticiously use ladies' rooms now.
Like a rocket ship soaring off the launchpad into space, the booster stage ignited when same-sex marriage became legal in the United States on June 26, 2015. Leading up to it and even today, the country is split over the Supreme Court decision. But all of a sudden, the booster separated and a massive force thrust the transgender toilet issue into the forefront. BAM! Like a phallic symbol, the rocket ship pierced through the stratosphere of society and it seems to be leaving conservatives and fundamentalists behind. Huh? Just like that, it's a brave new world.
Sadly, all that the liberal progressives do is mock and laugh and denounce conservatives, calling them stupid, uneducated, dimwits, both racist and sexist in nature, plus a few more unsavory adjectives that, in my opinion, only show how stellar they aren't, either. They want conservatives to roll over, play dead, and let them mold the country in their image. Of course, the conservatives fire back and here we are now, in a very uncivil war. Progressives v. Conservatives. Closed-minded v. Closed-minded. Who gets to use what public bathroom and why it should or shouldn't matter any more.
In the 1980s, I worked with a nasty womens' libber. She despised men. What I saw on the news was no prize, either. Gloria Steinem and Betty Friedan were overtly militant and it turned many men off. How were we [men] supposed to answer their call when they made it clear they hated us? Eventually, they softened their tone and we did, too. Of course, women were always equal as far as I was concerned, I just didn't appreciate the messengers early on. That's what's happening now. Oh, not me, but to many others, and I think it's stupid, uneducated, and a few more adjectives, when the progressive side doesn't see it for what it is: rubbing crap into the faces of people who don't want to change so quickly. So the conservatives retaliate the only ways they can, like what happened in North Carolina.
Look, I have no problem with transgenders. Heck, I've probably whipped it out at a urinal while unsuspectingly standing next to a gay or trans man. So what? No one ever thinks about that when they're taking a leak. For that matter, there may have been a transdude sitting in the stall nearby. I don't care. I go into a men's room to do my business, finish my business, wash my hands, and get out. And so do they. That's exactly the way it is in ladies' rooms, too, and people like Caitlyn Jenner aren't looking to molest anyone!
Here's what I say. If you don't like the new North Carolina law, boycott the state. If you don't agree with Target's policy on sharing bathrooms and fitting rooms with transgenders, just don't shop there. Problem solved. Go to Walmart instead, well-known as a bastion of normalcy. As for states that have passed sex at birth anti-transgender laws, I'd like to know who is going to check birth certificates at the door. Who is going to look at the plumbing before entering, the Poo-Pee Police? Inspecker Clouseau? Spread your legs, I'm a cop! It's a fabricated fear. Why? Because I'm more afraid of a Dennis Hastert-type guy than I am of anyone else.
Now that we're drifting in orbit, are all systems really go? Is everything A-OK? No, not really. Remember, some guys don't know any better now. While I don't believe much of this type of scenario will take place – not yet – another problem arises, and it's something that hardly anyone is taking into consideration.
Just the other day, a very dear female friend of mine stopped at a fast food restaurant. While there, she used the ladies' room. It had two stalls. She finished and walked up to the sink to wash her hands and gaze into her bright, beautiful, sultry and seductive eyes... No, I'm going off-topic. Sorry. She was standing there when, all of a sudden, a man entered with his very elderly mother. The woman had a walker. My friend decided right away it was time to leave, and she did! No words were spoken.
This type of situation creates several problems. First off, I would have taken my 90-something-year-old mother into the men's room. I'm a man. No guy would care if I took my elderly mother there and into a stall. Neither would she. Secondly, I wouldn't just barge into the opposite sex restroom unannounced. I'd declare myself. If people were in there, I'd allow them their personal space and wait for them to leave. To not do so is rude. What gave him the right to enter? It could be how the new rules are interpreted because no one is making them clear. To say this woman is beautiful is an understatement and there's no way, as a heterosexual male, that I wouldn't look at her ANYWHERE and not say to myself, “WHOA! What a looker!” Especially in such an exclusive setting. I'm certain he did the same thing. In any event, he was the real idiot. Or he was way smarter than we think?
When it comes to personal intimacy, on a scale of 1-10, what room comes directly after the boudoir for privacy? While, fortunately, he posed no danger or threat to her, is it okay if any masculine, heterosexual guy uses the ladies' room because he thinks he can? What if my friend had pushed open the door and there he stood inside? She would have immediately turned around and left! A woman (or 12-year-old) shouldn't be fearful when she needs to use a bathroom facility. That's her right, not a man's. Now, she says, she eyeballs women when she uses one. They all look each other over, and they're not looking for transgenders. It's the freaks and perverts. Welcome to the wonderful world of weirdos and the strangers who are going to pee on your seat.